Hello, welcome!

Do you:

Want a more adventurous, more love-filled and more soulular life?

Suffer a mental affliction like (for example) adhd, OCD, borderline, insomnia or an eating disorder that holds you back?

Can’t let go of habits/addictions that keep you stuck in a life you resent?

Self-sabotage health, wealth, career or relationships?

Lack the power to take charge of yourself and your life?

Feel like you’ve lost your sparkle and you’ve become boring, bitter or just overall negative?

Feel like you’re in the grips of unwanted emotional states (e.g., depression, anxiety, anger)?

Grapple with phobias like social anxiety, fear of (public) speaking, fear of failure and/or attachment/intimacy issues?

Yearn for a new identity?

Want a loving relationship but you feel blocked in getting one?

Have a lot of baggage but don’t know how to start cleaning it all up?

Live inauthentically because you’re plagued by insecurities and social conditioning?

In the sessions, we will:

❤️ Resolve your (mental, emotional, behavioural) issue;

❤️ Take back your power from the circumstances, people and habits you lost it to;

❤️ Shift your identity to match your aspirations;

❤️ Elevate your life experience;

❤️ Manifest your vision board;

❤️ Open a portal to a new existence for you.

❤️ Reconnect you with your authentic self and inner wisdom;

❤️ Process and accept your past and let it go;

❤️ Make you feel more confident, happy, free and at ease;

❤️ Create a lot more mental-emotional space in you;

❤️ Re-install your zest for life;

❤️ Take off your mask so you can experience real joy again;

Hello I’m Fay, and I’m here to hold your hand while we process your lows, uproot and integrate your darkness, and let go of your attachments. By dealing together with your challenges we will transform what you now see as ‘negative’ into wisdom, power and maturity.

But I’m also here to upgrade an already okay-ish psychology to an elevated life experience. We will take out the small every day annoyances that unnecessarily take up your mental-emotional space, move from the head into the heart, discover an inspiring new path for you and push you towards the exciting Unknown. We will get you your fire and sparkle back and with that, your zest for life.

  • I.v.S., 43, consultant turned entrepreneur

    Fay’s healing was truly transformative! Her comprehensive and holistic approach took me deep into uncovering and bridging the gaps between parts of me that were hindering my success. Together, we explored aspects of myself that were holding me back, integrating them into my being, in a way that’s now fueling my creativity instead of limiting it. Fay’s not just professional and skilled, she’s gifted. It was incredibly worthwhile. The depth and breadth of her methods and expertise are nothing short of amazing, creating an experience that’s both profound and illuminating (and also thorough). Highly recommend!

  • N.S., 40, photographer and filmmaker

    This trajectory changed my life! My name is N. [anonymized by Fay], 40 years old and my life didn't want to succeed until 2023. I couldn't get anything done, suffered a lot from old patterns, adhd and procrastinated on all my goals. I didn't live in the here and now. I came into contact with Fay through the internet and entered the process with open arms without any expectations. It is impossible to describe what happened. I had to get very used to getting from my (turbo) thoughts back into my body. To learn to think more spiritually and especially to feel. The sessions were crazy and special at the same time. Now several weeks later the storm has changed into calmness, I can set goals, start things and above all feel what is good for me. I dare to trust my intuition again and tackle things. Do you still have doubts? Do it now, thank me later :)

  • G.W., 31, soon to be lawyer

    I followed a 5-week trajectory with Fay and wow how very special this was!! I didn’t really know what to expect before I started so I just tried to go with the flow, and this approach is what really opened up a lot. The focus for me was on getting a new job and overcoming the barriers I experienced while looking and interviewing for a job. We discussed and worked through blockages I knew I had or didn’t know I had, that kept me from going for the job and the future I wanted. From anxiety, becoming an adult, fear of failure, to expectations I had of myself, holding on to a past that no longer served me and childhood experiences that - without me realising - still affected me and my behaviour. The sessions with Fay were really special, I felt really seen and at ease, and I felt no judgement to opening up and sharing my inner thoughts. If you are ready to really do some inner work and healing, to live your life more authentically and ‘free’ I would really recommend you to have Fay by your side to do it!

  • J.M., 40, post-doc researcher

    Fay senses very well where blockages lie and how to address them. By applying different techniques she allows blocked energy to flow again and she gives you insights. She makes it easy for you to be vulnerable with her compassionate and non-judgmental attitude. During the healing I processed a lot of negative thoughts and emotions and managed to shed a lot of layers of social conditioning regarding various topics, that never came back. I’m way more confident and in my body and feel like a 2.0 version. I can recommend this to everyone!

  • A.S., 25, consultant

    I healed with Fay concerning social anxiety and fear of being alone. The healing is super complete and she took the time to touch every aspect of my blockage. I really like how Fay instantly creates a very safe space to express yourself and heal, and is very patient in helping you unknot each part of your problem. She is also a very good coach to help you get into the process. It was my first experience healing and I was surprised how easily I could get into it. The healing helped me understand and accept better who I am, and the cause of my problems. My social life is the best it has ever been but I also don’t feel scared being alone anymore and embrace moments of aloneness.

  • F.M., 43, coach & entrepreneur

    Would highly recommend Fay as a transformative coach! Fay has a sixth sense of feeling where your blockages lie, as well as what is holding you back.
    She’s very flexible in that she can work with everything that comes up during a session, even the things that go beyond the original intention. This benefits the transformation process.
    Besides her strong intuition, Fay has a gift of being able to make you feel comfortable and vulnerable so you can let out whatever is needed.
    Truly amazing.

  • S.D., 38, osteopath & animal communicator

    Fay is a powerful energy worker with clear vision. After her treatments, my energy field feels cleaner and more protected, allowing me to keep more of my energy to myself. In the process she makes you laugh more easily at your own ego stories without discounting the pain underneath. It is clearly felt that Fay continually expands her power as a healer.

My Method

Unraveling internal problems is a true process of discovering and pulling out all the relevant weeds. This is how I go about it:

  • To successfully heal, we must first determine how healing looks like for you. Thus we determine the healing goal during the discovery call. Then I will sense how to best go about tackling your issue and propose what I have in mind, so you can decide whether I'm the right healer for you.

  • At the beginning of each session I ask a series of short questions to determine your known blocks. As you talk, more information comes to me intuitively which I add to whatever you tell me.

  • To get out of the mind and into the body, time is carved out (+/- 10 mins) for exercises to switch off the ruminating brain and let go of restlessness in the body.

  • Sessions are focused on externalisation of character parts, events, emotions and thoughts and then experiencing and feeling them. Not on analysis.

    In the sessions you will also be called to ‘discharge’ whatever is inside of you: you will be given the space to say whatever is on your mind (unfiltered talking) about particular topics. The result will probably be a huge stream of everything repressed that after discharge will seem to magically disappear :) Don’t be afraid of your darkness/ insecurities. When they come to light, you will see they only wanted to be acknowledged. And just by doing that, they will automatically stop running you.

    During the sessions I pick up blocking energies and emotions , and process them or alchemize them for you if, for whatever reason, that cannot happen within you (for example because an event was too traumatic for you).

    The sessions are active but if for whatever reason your health doesn’t allow this, we’ll adjust the techniques or I will take over bigger chunks of your process.

  • The main goal is to make peace with everything inside of you. To get there, I will have you say certain things out loud, like ‘I love you’ to certain parts of yourself. If this gives you ‘the icks’, don’t worry, it’s understandable. But when you see that it works, resistance will lower. Results over ego.

  • I like to reserve a part of the last session of a trajectory for focusing on a desired future for you. You will make a vision board and I will clear away your internal blocks to getting the life you want.

  • During the last part of the last session we will recap everything that shifted through a series of questions and complete the identity transformation.

Where I can be of special assistance ❤️

Difficulty accessing your emotions?

Then I can access the emotions for you. This way the emotion is processed and let go of, just not by you in that moment. This does not prevent that you might feel a bit down the day, or days, after the session. We will, however, aim to restore your feeling abilities, as they are key to getting back in touch with your aliveness.

Your ego gets in the way of receiving healing?

Well that definitely used to be me, so I can relate! Being judgmental of a healer or thinking ‘you’re special and nothing works for you’ is just resistance to vulnerability that prevents healing. If you allow me, I can take over your process energetically and remove your negativity and resistance so you feel lighter. This will take 10-30 minutes of you and me ‘boiling’ together in these energies, while I take them away. The only precondition is: you must want the transformation.

You have blocked out / can’t remember your past?

If you don’t remember your past well, I can tap into the version you were at a certain age and narrate what I feel and see. This can act as a prompt for finding forgotten causes for the issue at hand.


Do you sense an issue might not have a logical cause?

Just to clarify: an issue with a logical cause would be an issue that is created because of something that happened in the memorable past (1+1=2). But that might not always be the case. Life is very mysterious. Do not disregard the impact of energetic entanglements, past lives and ancestral heritage. Don’t worry, you don’t have to believe in these things for the sessions to be effective, nor am I going to try and convince you. They just pop up if they are key to healing.

Expectations 👑

Work with me if:

  • You sincerely want to get better;

  • You are ready for transformation;

  • You prefer solving an issue, instead of talking about it and analyzing it over and over;

  • You want to tackle an issue at all levels (energetic, spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, behavioural).

Not for you right now if:

  • You don’t have the space in your calendar the upcoming 5-10 weeks (in case of a trajectory);

  • You don’t have access to food and shelter and are surrounded by unsafe people. If this is the case, please harness all your energy to get yourself out of this critical condition. Sending you power!

  • You are not ready to let go of an issue as remaining unhealed provides some kind of benefit to you. No judgement - I also didn’t want to heal my eating disorder when it kept me thin. So I can relate. But wanting the potential change is necessary for transformation to happen.

What healing is:

  • Becoming your unique self;

  • ‘Graduating’ the psychological issue you’ve identified with and dropping the label (e.g., ‘anxious’, ‘adhd’er’ or ‘depressed’);

  • Feeling more happy, stable, free and confident;

  • Things that used to bother you and disturb your peace now seem silly and unimportant;

  • Feeling empowered, ‘light’, ‘young’ and mature at the same time;

  • Experiencing a (huge) increase in vitality, inspiration and motivation;

  • Regaining curiosity and wonder;

  • Creating your life, instead of being at the cause of it.

What healing is not:

  • Becoming socially acceptable (authenticity doesn’t necessarily mean ‘being or doing what the group loves’. But you will get comfortable strongly attracting what’s meant for you and strongly repelling what is not);

  • Becoming an ‘angel that spreads joy 24/7’ (authenticity means you embody all emotions and aspects of yourself, light and dark, ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’, with no resistance);

  • Never facing a challenge again (you are human; challenges are weaved into the web of life, they make you grow and develop).